What works for me is making it seem odanrm. For example, you are on your way somewhere and you decide to stop by your crib to pickup your camera, jacket, or any other odanrm item you may have forgotten. And once you arrive, I usually say something along the lines of: while we're here, you have to check this out! or this place has an awesome view. Say pretty much anything that will create intrigue in her. Once inside I keep my focus on escalating in a playful manner. Hope this helps.